Thursday, December 24, 2015

Which Programming Language Should I Learn....!

Which Programming Language Shoul I Learn....!

Cockroach Theory.....!

Cockroach Theory

A beautiful speech by Sundar Pichai - an IIT-Stanford Alumnus :

The cockroach theory for self development
At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.
She started screaming out of fear.
With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.
Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but landed on another lady in the group.
Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue
the drama.
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.
The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?
If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?
He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.
I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.
It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.
More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.
Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.
A beautiful way to understand............LIFE.
Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..
He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right..!!

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Be More Likable Person with This "Platinum Rule"

Your already know the "Golden Rule" 
The Golden Rule Says you should treat other with same respect you want to be treated with. 
But Dr. Travis Bradberry at The Good Man Project suggests that best approach to be more likable to others 

The golden rule says that you should treat others with the same respect you would want to be treated with. Dr.Travis Bradberry at The Good Men Project suggests there’s a better approach to take when you want others to like you more:

PLATINUM RULE : Treat Other as they want to be Treated

By this rule you just encourage them what they want as general. You are giving them extra courtesy.

Examples: (i)  if someone like public recognition and want to be in lime light . give to them . 

                  (ii) if someone don't like to be center of attention .Dont force them to make uncomfortable

You can use Golden Rule for baseline but keep this Platinum Rule in your mind. They ll like you more for it.

11 Secrets of Irresistible People  :  The Good Men Project via Inc.

Photo by Tech Cocktail

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